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We may not have it all together, but together we HAVE IT ALL!
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A Glimps Of Our Odyssey

Sunday, November 21

It's My Birthday, And I am Grateful!

Today is my birthday and I all I can think of is how BLESSED I am.
What have I ever done to deserve this BEAUTIFUL life?
I have been spending the day reflecting over the past 40 something years and all I can see are the BLESSINGS bestowed upon me by a LOVING Heavenly Father.
I know He must LOVE me to have given me so much.
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I am married to the LOVE of my LIFE!
He is my whole world, my rock and the greatest man I have ever known.
I love you to the moon and back"PUMPKIN"
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I have the most AMAZING children. I am proud that they all belong to me.
They have grown up to be the kind of people I always hoped they would become, and so much more.
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Did I mention I have the GREATEST grand kids on the planet.
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I have such incredible friends that stand beside me no matter what. I know they love me and care how I am feeling. Thanks dear friends I love you all..
Sunday 2 of them slipped this note to me in Sunday School class.
I love Jim and Jolyn, I know I can depend on them for anything.
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Isn't this the sweetest thing ever.... (I know It's not true but it made my day anyway)
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I know that I have a loving Heavenly Father who is mindful of me and my needs, He wants me to be happy.
His son Jesus Christ is my Savior and He atoned for me, He knows me, He knows my name and He loves me...What more could I ever want.
Today is my birthday.... and I am grateful.
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Thursday, November 18

Feeling Gratitude For The Men In My Life!

"Gratitude is a mark of a noble soul and a refined character. We like to be around those who are grateful. They tend to brighten all around them. They make others feel better about themselves. They tend to be more humble, more joyful, more likable."
Joseph B. Wirthlin
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I am Grateful for a husband who emulates this quote by Elder Wirthlin, I wish I could be more like him. Everyone that knows J loves and respects him. It doesn't matter what his circumstance is, he is always humble and "Grateful" and people from all walks of life love to be around him..
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I am so Grateful for these 3 AMAZING men..
I am grateful they belong to me.
What wonderful blessings to be GRATEFUL for!
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When J and I were blessed 3 times with sons I always hoped they would grow up to be the kind of man that their father was and is.
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Is there anything better than a man that:
Loves, respects and honors his wife, and her family,
Is the best "DADDY" a child could ever ask for,
Honors his Priesthood and magnifies his church callings,
Works HARD everyday to financially support his family,
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Teaches his children the value of "Work Ethic"
Values Higher Education,
Honors his parents through his actions,
Is WORTHY to enter the Temple.
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YES I HAVE JUST DESCRIBED THE MEN IN MY LIFE!
These are the marks of GREAT men!
I love these men, I am so grateful they belong to me!
(I am very grateful for the ANGELS that married my boys.)

Friday, November 12

Stand as a Witness of God

This is definitely a day that I am grateful my blog is PRIVATE!

J and I both contributed to today's post. Mine is the first, J's is the second.

Please read and leave your comment, I would really love to know how you feel about this particular post.

We are daughters of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him.

We will "stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things,
and in all places"

I stand every Sunday with the young women of the SSH 6th. ward and repeat this phrase as part of the Church of Jesus Christ of Later Day Saints young women theme. This theme is recited by the young women of our church, every Sunday, in every LDS ward world wide.
I have been feeling a tremendous amount of GUILT lately as I recite this theme simply because I feel that for the past few weeks
I HAVE NOT been truly standing as a witness of God.
I have stood by and watched as Nathan Herbert has been raked over the coals by a very CORRUPT news media. I have stood by while his life is being, or should I say [has] been DESTROYED.....All over an innocent mis-understanding.
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Why have I done this? Because I know and love ALL parties involved in this DISASTER, all of the accusers and their families and of course the accused and his family. I have wanted to stay neutral.
But last night as I spent the whole night awake in deep anguish over this I had to ask myself.
"Am I truly standing as a witness of God in all things, if I ignore the value of INTEGRITY?"
I know the kind of family the Herbert's are, and I know the kind of parents Gary and Jeanette are and were. They have raised 6 amazing children all educated, kind, compassionate, smart, honest, and righteous people,
with INTEGRITY just like their parents.
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I know that Gary Herbert is a man of principle, honesty, integrity and a wonderful father.
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I know the whole story, both sides, and Nathan Herbert IS NOT the MONSTER the media would like you to believe he is. Nathan is a victim and has been accused unjustly. I (unlike) the attorneys don't believe that this accusation was made maliciously. However I know for sure that there was a HUGE mis-understanding all caused by a lie that took place back in 2004.
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Herbert’s—Weingarten’s
CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE!
A UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE!
My family is friends with the Weingarten family that has been in the news recently surrounding the whole Nathan Herbert Stalking accusations. We are very particularly attached to Aiona whom we feel to be like a daughter to us. We have known Aiona since she was 9 years old. If you were ever to ask me to give a character reference for Aiona I would not hesitate. I believe she is a very genuine and good person. I know her parents and siblings to be of the same caliber.
I do not believe for one second that Aiona has set out on this accusation with the least bit of guile or desire to destroy someone’s life. I would testify that the Weingarten family have no political motivation in their actions.
All of this being said:
We also know the Herbert Family. We know of the character and reality of what the Herbert Family and Nathan Herbert are all about.
I believe this is genuinely a misconception and misunderstanding. If you listen closely to the media there is very little to substantiated stalking. I believe that Aiona has some people that have exaggerated and manipulated what she knows to be true. With all of the good I have to say about Aiona I know her and her sister to be paranoid over reactive and overprotective, this along with loving protective parents who support their daughter and are vigilant for her safety feeds into this whole situation.
Nathan Herbert being a good stalwart man having accomplishments and attributes to be admired! This man has some quirks that could be adding to the trouble. Nathan tends to stare at times, he will stare directly at people and when they look back as we sometimes do when we notice that someone is staring he doesn't look away like most of us do when we are caught starring he continues to look almost like he is looking through you. From what I can tell he also in my “expert opinion HAHA” seems to have some OCD and ADD tendencies.
I myself also believe that most men at some point make adjustments to our genitalia. I have been caught by my wife making adjustments when I thought nobody was paying attention or watching. I have seen many other men do the same. I am not sure how more public figures don’t get caught on camera from time to time. I believe this somewhat normal phenomenon also may have played a part in this whole mess. But there is a big difference between an adjustments even a prolonged one and masturbation.
Do I believe that it is possible that something very similar to what Aiona describes happened? YES!
Do I believe that Nathan Herbert masturbated in GOLDs GYM while starring at Aiona. NO WAY!
With the past history of complaints at Nordstrom. (which is all based on a situation that has no credibility) The complaint of Aiona’s sister Talei and the “friend” who made the original complaint at Nordstrom you have the “PERFECT STORM” to destroy someone’s life on unfounded and blown out of proportion accusations that are blown completely out of proportion by a biased media who only care about ratings.
I believe that Aiona and the Wiengarten family have fallen into a trap of having a desire to be safe and protective of their family and not really looking at the real picture of what took place.
Please understand that it would be my desire to stay out keep my mouth shut and let things take their course, because I do not want to offend either family. All it takes for evil to prevail is for good men to stand by and do nothing I have been doing nothing long enough I feel that at least those in ear shot of me should have this perspective.
Jay L.
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Thursday, November 11

Friday, November 5

President Eyring On Sacred Temples

Beautiful Video by President Eyring About LDS Temples
Please pause the music on the right sidebar.

Tid Bits, And Nuggets...

The house is SO empty, and quiet... Not really liking that so much!
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I miss the sound of little feet in the morning...
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It's time to "Dead Head" everything in the yard, and I need to rake leaves.
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I MISS SUMMER!
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Can't wait for "Game Day" I love the Cougs!
I love the way Bronco keeps the X-players involved in the program. It's been so fun to
re-connect with Jay's old team-mates.
I remember when Jay wore this jersey and helmet. I'm so glad they went back to the
"Old School" Uniforms..
{I just wish they were as good as they were back during Jay's playing days}
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Kinda wish I was going to be in the Utah stands tomorrow!
Sure hope they beat TCU!
Go Utes...
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Wednesday, November 3

Called To Serve!

I love being Mormon, I love the Mormon lifestyle.
I'm so grateful that the LDS religion requires me to live the Gospel EVERY DAY not just on Sunday.
I love living in Utah Valley where the LDS influence is so strong,
I LOVE my calling, my girls, and all those I have the privilege of serving with,
The Gospel of Jesus Christ is TRUE, I'm so grateful for that knowledge.
A few days ago a letter came in the mail, the return address on it was
The Church of Jesus Christ of Later Day Saints,
I didn't even pay any attention to whom the recipient was, I automatically assumed it was for Jay, even though he is no longer a Bishop he still gets letters from the church now and then.
I put the letter in Jay's mail stack on his night table, and went about my daily business.
Later on in the day I was in my room putting away laundry when I caught the name on the letter.
BIG SHOCKER........It was addressed to me not Jay. Feeling a little nervous, and wondering why I would receive a letter from the church, I opened it.
It was a letter from the Mt. Timpanogos Temple Presidency, asking me to come in and visit with them about working in the Temple.
So many mixed feelings.
I LOVE the Temple, but I'm so nervous to actually work there.
One thing I have always felt is you never turn down a calling and the opportunity to serve the Lord. I 'm looking forward to my meeting with the temple presidency, and I hope I'm able to serve diligently in the Sacred House of The Lord, I know my life will be so blessed through a calling such as this.
I love the Temple and the way it makes me feel when I am there. There are times when I sit in the Celestial room and feel the Spirit so strong that I never want to leave.
Today I am Grateful!!
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Monday, November 1

Happy Halloween!

Our wonderful neighbors~~~No those Utah shirts are not costumes they really are fans!
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Our precious Crew minus Mack and Andi.
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Jackson, Heather & Co.
Heather made both of these cute costumes...She's Amazing.
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Jordan, Linsey, & McCartney.
Linsey made McCartney's Kitty Costume.
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Brandon & Ashley and Their little gang.
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The cutest Chicken and Kitty I ever saw!
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Saturday, October 30

According To My Plans!

Do you ever wish you could just make everything go
"ACCORDING TO PLAN"
It doesn't seem to matter how hard I try I just can't seem to make things go
"ACCORDING TO PLAN"
Whats up with that?
It seems I have this picture in my mind of how my plans will be carried out.
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But.....Something always goes
"wide of the mark."
Maybe my expectations of myself and others are set too HIGH.
Do I have to wait until January to make a resolution?
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I think not....
So today I am making a resolution...
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I'm going to quit expecting the IMPOSSIBLE to happen,
and I'm NOT going to expect PERFECTION from myself and others.
In other words I'm going to
WOW! This will be a TOUGH one for me...
DISCLAIMER: I'm still going to STRIVE for PERFECTION! Just not expect it.
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Thursday, October 28

A Trip To Halloween Town.

Last night we took the family on a trip to Halloween Town on the The
"Nightmare Express"
We had a BLAST! Everyone loved it. It runs through Saturday, you can find out more about the Nightmare Express and the Polar Express here
I highly recommend it.
Below are the costumes of choice for the Linford Children 2010
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Hewitt (Hulk) J.J. (Woody) Halle (Hermione) McCartney (Witch) Harper (Karate Kid)
Missing: Linford (Pirate)
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You can see that everyone is all smiles and quite excited before the train ride.
None of us really knew what we were in for.
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Waiting for the train with great ANTICIPATION!
After the train ride.....Still pretty happy, it was a great time for all.
The train goes through the whole neighborhood and it's a pretty long train ride.
The Anderson family has done an incredible job with this wonderful activity.
WE LOVED IT!
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Monday, October 25

A Reason, A Season, Or A Lifetime...


People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person..
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When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with
guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a God send and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be..
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Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
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Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..
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Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.
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They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.. But only for a season.
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.
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Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Wednesday, October 20

Oh How I Miss The Good Old BYU!!

BYU Football: O'Neil Chambers' Antics Are Emblematic

ARLINGTON, TX - SEPTEMBER 05:  Wide receiver O'Neill Chambers #4 of the Brigham Young Cougars runs the ball against Sam Proctor #27 of the Oklahoma Sooners at Cowboys Stadium on September 5, 2009 in Arlington, Texas.  (Photo by Ronald Martinez/Getty Images)Ronald Martinez/Getty Images
The indefinite suspension of receiver O’Neill Chambers gives Cougar fans a glimpse into a problem with the current BYU receiving corps.

Wide receiver was supposed to be a strength and a source of leadership on an offense that was trying to replace five skill players who have moved on to the NFL.

Instead of stepping up to the plate, the receivers have done just the opposite — dropping balls, failing to get open and then mouthing off in the media and on social networks.

Apparently Chambers somehow thought that trying to act like T.O. and Ochocinco demonstrates leadership. Newsflash — those guys are cancers not leaders.

Chambers antics are clues to his lack of focus as a player.

Right now there are guys sitting on BYU’s bench that will go out and run routes and catch passes like their lives depend on it. Guys like JD Falslev, Rhen Brown and B.J. Peterson come to mind.

Perhaps now is the time for some of these players to get a chance to show what they can do. They may not have the size or speed or accolades of some of the receivers on the roster, but you can bet they would give you everything they have.

Talk to just about any former BYU receiver from the LaVell Edwards era and they will roll their eyes in disgust at what they see happening at BYU these days.

There was a time when BYU receivers prided themselves in running precise routes and having flypaper for hands. They would rather face a firing squad than let down their teammates by dropping a pass, even in practice.

They weren’t the fastest or most athletic receivers in the country, the truth be told they weren’t even close. But they drove defensive coordinators crazy with their ability to get open and catch the football.

It’s time for the current Cougar wide receivers to man up and decide if they want to play football.

It’s time to put on the tape of guys like Austin Collie, Mark Bellini, Glen Kozlowski, Ben Cahoon, Andy Boyce, Eric Drage, etc, etc, and watch and learn. It’s time for the receivers to step up and start helping out their young quarterback by getting open and hanging onto the ball.

Of course there are plenty of ancillary reasons why the wideouts have been so unproductive this year. A botched quarterback situation, the loss of Harvey Unga’s running, complete inexperience at tight end and some questionable play calling, just to name a few.

But somebody in this receiving corps must step up and accept the responsibility to make something happen. In Saturday’s loss to TCU, the Cougar wide receivers made a grand total of one catch. How is that even possible at program like BYU?

Anyone who has played the game as a receiver will tell you that drops like those that have plagued BYU this year are the result of a lack of concentration, a lack of focus. In reality, a lack of desire.

Getting open is ten times more the product of route running than it is speed. Again it’s all about desire.

If you happen to have speed, good size, are a consummate route runner and are willing to work your butt off, then you become an Austin Collie.

If your an average athlete though, through a commitment to perfect route running you can still become an outstanding and productive receiver. Just ask a guy like Ben Cahoon.

Ben was a 5-9 receiver who lacked size and speed, but he ran impeccable routes and would rather die than drop a ball. He is the perfect example of a player that wasn’t blessed with tremendous physical tools, but still excelled because of heart and desire.

Cahoon graduated from BYU in 1997 and has gone on to stardom with the Montreal Alouettes in he CFL, becoming the leading receiver in league history and the all-time leader in receiving yards in the history of the Grey Cup, the Canadian equivalent of the Super Bowl.

While at BYU, Ben was known for his ability to latch on to the ball, often contorting his short frame to snag passes that he had no business catching. Put Cahoon’s heart, soul and work ethic into this current Cougar receiving corps and the sky becomes the limit.

Eric Drage was another classic BYU receiver that lacked great speed, but could always be counted on to get open and make a play at crucial times.

He was as tough and as competitive as they come as a wide receiver. He was the type of guy that was disgusted by receivers that would run out of bound after a catch rather than put his head down and fight for extra yardage. His fiery nature would sometimes cause him to get in the faces of both his teammates and coaches.

Perhaps the Cougars need to infuse some old school back into the program by enticing a guy like Cahoon, Drage or another Cougar receiving great to join the coaching staff.

Shake-ups and/or re-assignments in the coaching staff are likely coming. How about adding someone in the process that can instill the kind of culture that used to exist back in the day?

Cahoon has 13 years of professional playing experience and is the kind of guy that could step right and bring a different culture to this receiving corps and offense. That’s if he is willing to call it quits after this season with the Alouettes.

Eric Drage would be another interesting addition at BYU. His fire and competitiveness would shape up the Cougar receivers in an instant.

Drage has coaching experience as the head coach of the semi-pro Wasatch Revolution and serves as the wide receiver coach at Herriman High School in Herriman, Utah.

Former Cougar tight end and NFL All-Pro Chad Lewis is someone that has shown a great deal of interest in lending his knowledge and expertise to the BYU program.

The point is, there needs to be a new culture, a new standard established with this receiving corps, and there are plenty of former Cougars that BYU could turn to for help.

This article is also featured on Deep Shades of Blue

Friday, October 15

Thoughts And Prayers

Did you know that Heavenly Father knows you personally--by name? . . .
We may not have heard the Lord call us by name, but He knows each one of us and He knows our name.
Elder Neal A. Maxwell said.
'I testify to you that God has known you individually . . . for a long, long time. He has loved you for a long, long time. He knows your names and all your heartaches and your joys!'
I have been thinking a lot about this for the past few days, I know that there is nothing I can't get through in this life if I will trust in the Lord and let him carry some of the burden.
Today my thoughts are with the our dear friends the Stuart family and little Rex.
I am so grateful for this dear little family, and for the strong example they are to me and those that know them.
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Precious Little Rex Stuart
Today my problems seem very small.
Sometimes we have to put our lives in the hands of our Heavenly Father and trust in him.
I believe that The Savior Jesus Christ atoned for everyone of us. Not just for our sins but for trials, tribulations, afflictions, and any pain that we will experience in this life as well. I know when he took upon him the sins and afflictions of the world in the garden of Gethsemane that he did so for each of us INDIVIDUALLY, He saw ME, he knew MY NAME. What comfort this knowledge gives to me.
I am so grateful for his healing power.
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Wednesday, October 13

Our House Guest!

That's right this is our house guest for the next few weeks.
Meet Boss McBride, one of our 4 grandogs I think he weighs pretty close to 200 pounds
{That's a lot of DOG}
I'm not very thrilled to have him INSIDE my home but if ever there was a sweeter dog, or a more obedient one than this I sure haven't seen it.
Having him here is helping me to deal with my {issues} Some people say I'm OCD and a clean freak, but I only vacuum twice a day and only where the dog has been.
I think I'm doing pretty good!
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If having Boss here means that I can also have that little blond headed creature sitting next to him, then I will put up with a HUGE HARRY dog.
It's a great trade off, if I do say so myself.
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A Glimps Of Our Odyssey

"Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale."